Being Alone, Good or Not Good.

 Life is just like a rollercoaster ride. There are high ups and there will be low downs. There will never be a linear path in this ride. Now be it a rollercoaster ride or any other journey of life, what really matters the most? Your courage, your consistency, your mindset and to be honest, the people with whom you choose to share this ride. The people who are riding in this ride with you will definitely print a good impression of their role in this journey. What if you chose to ride alone ? It might sound like an awkward question to some. There's nothing bad in being alone till its serving it's healthy purpose to you.

Most of the people enjoy their ride all by themselves and some want to be with someone. Again there's nothing bad in both of the scenarios until you are happy.

People are an integral part of our lives . Be it the family, the friends, the partner or anybody we enjoy a healthy bond with. Nobody can survive and sustain without having some good people in their lives. Things will become heavier than they already are. Who doesn't want to be around someone they feel like a home with. Who doesn't want to be around someone with whom they can be their true self without any filters on them. We all are longing for this. Again this bond can be found in any relation of one's life. 

There's nothing wrong if it is not your choice to stay alone and showing yourself like a warrior all the time. We can be fragile, honest, tender on times. We can stay low key when we are not able to accumulate that strength inside us. We can rely on the ones we wish to be. It is always said to be strong and bold alone. Everybody will ask this and they are the ones who have not seen you alone, struggling hard to stand again , fighting your own battles alone. Only you know what you have gone through in that race when you put a big fat smile on your face when there was a continuous battle going on inside you and you were straining yourself with those weights.

There's no single definition of good and bad that fits all. Being with good people and in healthy relationships is as essential as feeling joy in solitude. Life is a long rollercoaster ride. There is no wrong to enjoy with someone or on your own. What all matters is your happiness and emotional well being instead of rigid conceptions of good or bad.