Self - Love

Loving others might not be an intricate task than loving YOURSELF. Yes , this is true .

We keep loving others so easily that it becomes an arduous task to love our own self. Why? The answer lies in our own built mindset. We are taught to always love others who live with us and who care for us but how many times are we taught about Self - Love?

Yes , we have always been given great life lessons but we have barely got any lessons about Self-Love. This is the reason why sometimes we take ourselves for granted so easily without even knowing our worth.

How can we love others adequately if we do not love ourselves first? 

How can we make others happy if deep inside, we ourselves are not happy?

For some people this might not be difficult but all this will be interim if you do not love yourself first . How can you pour from an empty cup?

Self - Love is not selfish if some think so . Keeping yourself HAPPY will not make you a SELFISH person. It will boost your confidence because if you're happy how can you be under - confident? 

So start taking yourself seriously and lightly at the same time . Don't be so hard on yourself if you're sad and not so gingerly if you're happy. You should know the balance.

Doubting yourself will not give you anything instead of stress and anxiety and these words are enough to explain the worst which can ever happen to a person. 

Do not focus on the hatred around yourself. Just blur it !! That hatred will not go anywhere but you will definitely if you keep zooming your focus on it . Start knowing yourself more. Be proud of yourself that you're standing straight in all this abhorrence.  Reward yourself when that phase is over because no one else is going to do that for you. 

So start discovering yourself more to LOVE yourself more.

At the same time do not forget to admire someone else's beauty without questioning YOURS.